Hebraic Musing - I can do it myself.
If
you have ever watched a very young child try to dress him or herself, you know
how cute it can be. Just like us
sometimes, stubbornly insisting “I can do it myself.” Picture the child painstakingly tackling each
button as if trying to solve the world’s greatest problems. Then sticking their head into the sleeve
instead of the head opening and letting out an earth-piercing wail when they
get stuck! It’s easy to chuckle at the
child insisting “I’ll do it myself,” but what happens, or doesn’t happen, when
a 40-year-old or a 60-year-old approaches life with the same stubbornness —
refusing help, even from God?
Now,
most folks don’t intentionally shut out God’s help; they simply don’t ask Him
for help. They wrestle through the day’s
problems on their own, often too busy to even take a moment to ask God for His
assistance. Let’s listen to sage advice
from the Psalmist. “The Lord is near to all who call on him, … He fulfills the desires of those who fear
him; he hears their cry and saves them. The Lord watches over all who love
him,…” Ps 145:18-19 How frustrated must our Father God feel
while watching His children struggling to operate in the DIY mode?
Are
we really saving time by not spending time in prayer? And whose time is it anyway? The Master of the Universe wants to work with
us, so how much more efficient might we might be if we did things His way?
Did
our Father God reveal His heart in Song of Songs when He told us how He views
us, allegorically, in this long but lovingly beautiful passage? “You
are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a
sealed fountain. Your plants are an orchard of pomegranates with choice fruits,
with henna and nard, nard and saffron, calamus and cinnamon, with every kind of
incense tree, with myrrh and aloes and all the finest spices. You are a garden
fountain, a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon. Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden that its fragrance may
spread abroad. Let my lover come into
his garden and taste its choice fruits.”
Song 4:12-16 NIV
The
man in the story is talking to the woman; but in allegorical terms God is talking
to us, His people. Paraphrased, God is
saying to us – “You are so beautiful, you
have so much to offer, and I want to have a relationship with you, but you
won’t let me in!” When we don’t open
ourselves to God, we are like a locked-up garden with so much potential inside;
but we won’t open up to share it. And
the garden withers…
First
– We need to open ourselves up to God, constantly calling on Him in prayer and
asking for His assistance. We need to make
God part of our lives on a daily basis in every way. How much more valuable could we be to Him if
we did things His way. Or, we can
continue to listen to and obey Frank Sinatra when he sings ♫ I’ll do it my way…♫
Second
– What would happen if we opened up to the other people in our lives? This means being willing to ask them for help
at times. It might be hard for us to do
and we might even feel like a burden; but the truth is that when we open
ourselves up to another person we are allowing them to be part of our life. Our relationships are strengthened as we share
our lives with others.
We
can’t do it all ourselves, and thanks to God we don’t have to. But we must be wise enough and humble enough
to let others in and not insist on “doing it myself.”
Points to
ponder
Do we need
God’s help in everything?
Can we give
all our talents and treasures to Him?
Does God
want you to unleash your full potential?
Might other
people actually want to help us?
♫ I need Thee, oh, I need Thee; Every hour I need Thee;.♫
Yosef a.k.a. Joe Brusherd
August
28, 2018
Author: “Hebraic
Insights – Messages exploring the Hebrew roots of our faith”
“Biblical Marriage (by Yosef)” Weekly “Hebraic Musings”
* Inspired by and excerpted from Holy Land Moments – “I can do it myself”
from IFCJ - Aug.16, 2018