Hebraic
Musing - Have You Ever Felt like Just
Giving Up?
I think we have all felt
‘burn-out’ at times, and more so when working for the Kingdom of God. Ever feel frustration at seeming lack of
progress? Pastors (and church leaders)
from time to time say they are ready to give up, tired, frustrated, questioning
whether they’ve failed God, failed their congregation and/or failed their
family. Rick Warren claims “It’s not a sin to get discouraged—it happens
to all of us. Discouragement is a byproduct of spiritual warfare. It also
happens when our expectations need to be readjusted.”
Maybe discouragement is just a
form of the “suffering servanthood” we were promised in 1 Peter 4:12 when Peter
consoled us with “Beloved, do not think it strange concerning the fiery trial which
is to try you, as though some strange thing happened to you;…” NKJV
So when (not if) those feelings of
discouragement come over you, consider these six remedies:
1.
Remember how much God loves you.
When you feel discouraged, why not “preach God’s love” to yourself for a
change, like you preach it to others? You can’t feel the love of God and feel
discouraged at the same time. Remind
yourself “And so we know and rely on the
love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in
love lives in God, and God in him.” 1 John 4:16 NIV
2.
Refuse to “fake it.” This is
tough for those of us in leadership roles.
We feel our lives are on display. If people really know me can I still be effective
in church ministry? Actually, the
opposite is true. Others are attracted
to transparency, and that helps their openness to the Gospel. Of course, you need to be wise about what you
share. When sharing one’s three part
salvation testimony, the first part exposes who you were; and that helps others
to know you and relate to you. Even God
wants you to know who you really are. “But the Lord God called to the man, ‘Where
are you?’" Gen 3:9
3.
Focus on “others”, not on yourself. Christian
ministry is all about “others”. Preaching that message years ago I explained
that there are 7 billion “others” in the world.
My pastor corrected me in front of the whole church and said “No Joe,
there are 7 billion minus one!” He’s
right; there’s more to life than just you. IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU! Nine times our Bible says to “love your neighbor as yourself”. Discouragement will vanish as we broaden our
perspectives to include “others”.
4.
Be realistic about your limitations. Ministry
leaders are not going to solve all the problems in the world. We are regular people “blooming where we are
planted”. We can’t bloom
everywhere. So let’s recognize:
- We can’t keep everyone happy
- We aren’t going to hit a home run with every message, sermon or outreach
- We won’t successfully handle every conflict
Paul knew this. “That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinth 12:10
- We can’t keep everyone happy
- We aren’t going to hit a home run with every message, sermon or outreach
- We won’t successfully handle every conflict
Paul knew this. “That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.” 2 Corinth 12:10
5.
Take time for renewal. We all
need diversions and ways to recharge daily, weekly and annually. Take a Daily walk; Honor or “Keep the Sabbath” (pick your 7th day if
necessary); take your annual Vacation trip.
6.
Stay focused on eternity. We’re
all caught in the struggle between the urgent and the important. Remember the Goal – “And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of
glory that will never fade away.” 1 Peter 5:4
Points to ponder
How many
lives have you already touched? Why stop
now?!?!
How did you
feel when first hearing God calling you to a leadership role?
♫ Make a joyful noise, sing unto the Lord, Tell Him of His love, and dance
before Him. ♫
Yosef a.k.a. Joe Brusherd
July 31, 2019
Author: “Hebraic Insights – Messages exploring the Hebrew roots of our faith”
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Note – Inspired and excerpted from Pastor Rick
Warren’s “What
to Do When You Want to Give Up” July
23, 2019
“Biblical Marriage (by Yosef)” Weekly “Hebraic Musings”